Life Lessons

What to Do if Your Husband Hates You

If you find out or suspect that your husband hates you, then it is important to know what to do if your husband hates you. This is a delicate matter. If you do not want to make the situation worse and risk alienate your husband more, then you need to handle this carefully. A wrong move could result in much worse situations. The good news is that many women have faced this situation and they survived so will you.

How do you know what to do if your husband hates you?

The first thing to do is not to panic. Do not let emotion take over. You can make the situation worse, much worse, if you let your emotion take control.

Bear in mind that if your husband already hates you, then crying or asking why he hates you is not going to help but will only make him less tolerant of you. So, do not do that. Stay calm and cool and try to avoid any confrontation with him until you have done your analysis of what to do which will be discussed below.

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Analysis to know what to do if your husband hates you

Do not skip this step. It can take a while to do the analysis but you will need it to avoid making the matter worse. There are two important questions that you need to ask yourself when your husband does not love you anymore or even hates you.

  1. Do you want to leave him?
  2. What do you want to get out of the marriage now that there is no love?

Write your answers down if necessary but do not do it where your husband can find out such as not on the computer that he has access to.

If you want to leave your husband, then you can spend some time preparing how to leave the best way possible to avoid future problems. Do not let him know that you are planning to leave. Acting skills will come in handy at this time. Don't alert him to anything out of ordinary especially do not let him know that you know he hates you.

Prepare things such as taking all the possessions that you care about away from his access. Taking all the money that you would need, credit cards, etc. You should do this even if you do not want to leave him because, when he hates you, he can just take it all away from you in an instant and you will end up with nothing.

Whatever you do, make sure that you cannot just totally run away one day in the middle of the night and leave you with nothing - no money, no credit cards, nothing of value.