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How to Deal with Nasty People

Unfortunately there are many nasty people in the world. As the world gets more competitive and more and more people fall under hard times, there will be even more nasty people to deal with on a day to day basis. So, how to deal with nasty people? Nasty people are often also mean, stupid and negative.

How to Deal with Nasty People

The first thing to remember when dealing with nasty people is to not let them get to you. Don't be sad, upset or take what they say to heart. Nasty people feed on fear and emotion and if they see you being affected by what they do or say, then they will keep on doing it to you. On the other hand, if they see that what they do to you is a waste of time because you are not getting upset, your work is not suffering, you are still happy, etc, then they will move on to bullying the next prey who has a weaker mind than you.



How to Deal with Nasty People

Once you can master not being affected by whatever the nasty people do to you or your work, you can start thinking strategically at how to make them stop doing whatever they are doing and even getting back at them. However, most nasty people are losers and they usually are not happy and are low lives. If you spend time playing their game (being nasty back to them and so on), then you risk being like them (i.e. unhappy and loser).

In any case, if you are not affected by then (you are still happy), and your work is still going great, then there is no immediate danger and there is no hurry to have to deal with nasty people, you can take your time to plan in your spare time what to do. You can either report them to the authority or do something to get back at them yourself.

Bear in mind that if you decide to not do anything and let nasty people get away with trying to hurt you, then it is likely that someone else will be the next prey. So, you may want to do society good by reporting the person to the authority or warn others about him or her. But, remember, before you do all of this, make sure that you have the golden rule down pat because if you don't then you will be exposing yourself to more time and interaction with the nasty people and he or she will have more chances to hurt and be nasty to you.